i'm just so confused! i thought i was bisexual and i have a girl friend that i really like and couldn't imagine life without, but i am way more attracted to guys and becoming less to girls and i don't know if i am gay. i love her and never want to see her hurt and she has had so much disappointment from people because everyone she loves just leaves her without a second glance. i just don't know what to do anymore and i keep thinking about ending it and it seems more and more appealing.
First: By ending it you mean the relationship right?
Well, I was in this position two years ago. I am not sure about you, but I now realize that I am gay, yes I still think females are attractive to a point but I only see myself with males. I think you should tell her. I think it would be best to sit her down and tell her that you are struggling with your sexuality and are not sure if you can continue. Make sure she knows you care and do not want to hurt her. I am still close to my ex girlfriend even though I broke up with her because of this reason. Please feel free to ask more, I will try and help in any way I can. I am here for you!